A Time for Everything :: Part 2 :: A Homesteading Dream

This series, “A Time for Everything,” will focus on the changes happening in my life, how the Lord has prepared me, and is continuing to do so, and what I’m learning about Ecclesiastes 3. If you missed Part 1, read it here.

house

the log cabin I grew up in (recently painted white)

I grew up in the woods. My parents dreamed of a log cabin in the woods, and before they were 30 they made that dream a reality. They built our home on 9 acres of land with the help of family and friends, and a little bit of hired help to make sure it was strong and square and up to code. I turned four the summer they built it. That place – those woods – defined my childhood. My dad split all our firewood for the stove, and my brother (3 years older than me) and I would help load it into little wagon hooked up to back of the riding lawn mower and stack it in the garage. My brother and I played baseball in the yard (I may or may not have insisted on always being the batter and never the pitcher), we built ‘forts’ in the woods, enjoyed hotdogs over campfires, heard owls hooting, coyotes howling, and saw deer gracefully bound over the fence across the road.

I’d like to say I enjoyed all the work that comes with country living, but I suppose I should tell the truth. I often tried every possible tactic to get out of chores, to no avail usually. I enjoyed the quiet of our little refuge in the woods, but sometimes I resented being a 20 minute drive from my friends’ houses in town. I did love our home, but didn’t fully appreciate the gift that it was to live between the trees, where the sound of a truck kicking up gravel was a familiar but not frequent sound, where the songs of birds were carried into my bedroom on a breeze through the open window, where we looked forward to wading in creeks and hunting (morel) mushrooms, where our Beagle, “Opie,” could run free and howl at the moon without a complaint from a disgruntled neighbor, where I could know a little bit more about God because I could step out the back door and see the beauty of His Creation everywhere.

OUR DREAM

I left for college nearly 11 years ago, only living at home during the summer for the next four years. I moved away entirely the summer I turned 22 for a job in the big city. Josh and I were married the following summer, and we stayed in the city a year more. I have always known the city is not my home. Too much busy, too much noise, too much commercialism. Not enough peace, trees, clean air, or space. The next two years were spent living with my uncle, who graciously gave us a place to stay so we could move back home, in his beautiful house in the woods. But it wasn’t our home, so after Halle was born and Josh got a new job, we felt the Lord’s blessing to buy our own place. We looked at many houses, but we both knew when we found the one we were supposed to buy. We knew it was God’s hand leading us because how else could we look past the cigarette smoke stained walls and decades old carpet and wallpaper and did I mention the cigarette smoke smell that permeated everything? We got the house for way less than asking price, got a tax credit to help with the renovation, and had the wonderful help of family and friends to whip this place into shape. We have truly loved being here. It was perfect for this time in our lives.

house before

house before

house after

house after

Slowly but surely, though, that dream of a home in the woods has been slipping into our hearts and minds. With three growing girls – and possibly more children someday – we long for a place where they, too, can experience all the joys of a quiet place to rest, a vibrant place to explore, a space budding with possibilities of a garden, an orchard, and maybe some chickens even. I’m getting a head start on homesteading practices now through learning many new techniques of food preparation for Josh’s new diet, and we’ve had a garden for the last four years.

For us as a homeschooling family, country living is ideal for learning and growing together as a family and a wonderful place to prepare our girls to wives, mothers, homemakers, gardeners, caretakers of the land and home. The details of how this might happen aren’t all clear yet, but possibilities are coming into view. I feel like we are in a pretty balanced place right now – very grateful and content in our current home but feeling the pull in a new direction. This is very much a matter of prayer and thoughtful consideration for us. I am certain the Lord will guide us now as He always has.

Have you made a significant move or lifestyle change? Was it a welcome change or a time of uncertainty? Was it by choice or by necessity? Do you have a dream that the Lord is asking you to put on hold? Or a dream that He is leading you through now? I’d love to hear about it!

-Brit

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7 thoughts on “A Time for Everything :: Part 2 :: A Homesteading Dream

  1. We recently watched a documentary called Back To Eden. It has inspired us to live in a way that is in better harmony with creation, as we seek to steward the resources entrusted to us. You should take a look sometime! Just google the name Back To Eden film. It’s free to watch. – Victoria

    • I will check it out! Thanks for the tip. Even without watching it I am sure I will love it. God gave us such a beautiful, miraculous world to live in… I’m afraid we’ve become blind to so much of how he intended it to work.

      • THANK YOU for recommending this! I LOVE LOVE LOVED it. I will post about this soon, but about a year ago I was telling my husband that if I could do anything, I would love to have a huge organic garden and share with people in the community who can’t afford to buy healthy foods. My dream…. and so exciting that God is slowly leading us toward it…. I hope I hope!

  2. That’s fantastic Britney! I just wrote a post on Back to Eden too. Yes please post something soon – I have heaps to learn about this and like you’ve just said here too, we have a dream of providing fresh organic produce for others too. I would love to learn from your journey. 🙂

  3. I grew up in the country, too, played in the woods, and enjoyed the outdoors. Most of my adult life I’ve lived in the city, but I was happy when we finally found a rural neighborhood with one acre lots. Most of our property backs up to undeveloped woods, so I felt like I was home again. Great post! You brought back memories for me.

    • Thanks for sharing! And I am glad you have found a place that feels ‘country’ now. Having your property up against the woods is so nice I bet. We currently live on a half acre but our back yard is up against a corn/bean field so at least we have some nice space open back there. Hoping to move to out to the sticks in the next couple years.

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